Comment by YourShitStinksToo:
Yeah, you don’t need to be dating a single black mother or any single mothers. You sound like a selfish tool already. All you want is a woman to herself and refuse to understand that KIDS COME FIRST!
Comment by foxxywoxxy:
I am glad that he is being honest because then it allows the woman to decide if she will “settle” for someone like this. WE women have to accept the fact that we are dealing with a large group of men who accept no amount of responsibility for their own– nor will they accept responsibility for someone else. SElfishness and apathy is destroying the black community.
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“while u relax in a …
“while u relax in a world of peace and tranquility” – awesome statement bro.
Besides, if a black …
Besides, if a black man is inclined to help black children, he can do it in other ways besides marrying a single black mother. He can be a teacher, a mentor, a counselor at a boys’/girls’ club, or he can adopt a child after he chooses the woman he wants, and who wants him, to start a family together. There are rare stories of men who have raised other men’s children like their own, but this is not something that should be expected on a regular basis.
Why get involved …
Why get involved with a woman who thinks she can guilt-trip you into a relationship with her? What does SHE have to offer that would make a man WANT to be with her? If she resorts to guilt trips, it shows that she does not have personal qualities to keep a man interested in her, and must resort to pressure and scare tactics. What man wants to be held hostage like that? She won’t respect the man, and consequently, HER KID won’t respect him.
EVERYBODY dates for …
EVERYBODY dates for “selfish” reasons, and there is no reason to feel guilty about it. Who you spend your intimate time with is a personal decision: no matter what friends/family/community say, YOU have to wake up next to this person in the morning, NOT them. You have to look out for your own piece of mind, because no one else will. While nobody is entitled to a relationship, we do have a right to pursue those who most appreciate us for who we are as individuals.
The only ones who …
The only ones who are selfish are these women who reject countless decent brothas who would’ve made great husbands and fathers and now want them to “step up” after all the thugs, frat boys, athletes, and bums have had their fun with them. If he was “too square” then he should be “too square” now. It’s real funny how all these bad characteristics good men supposedly have suddenly disappear when these single mothers need somebody to save their dumb asses.
your 100% spot on …
your 100% spot on macadon.
No No No. You are …
No No No. You are not selfish. I have no kids either. I think it’s SELFISH for THOSE SINGLE MOTHERS to date a man who is not the biological father to get with him to get bills paid, take care of the child(ren). Never no love for the man. Selfish Single fathers too to a woman with her paying his child support. It’s good for single mothers to find a man that is cool with that and she loves him and I have seen a few who got married. We are for SINGLE WOMEN not Mothers
There’s nothing …
There’s nothing wrong with decision. Dont use single parent Mother for sexing until you meet the single woman with no kids.
I refused alot of Black men who have kids by different women, I moved on and won’t date them. BM prey on single parents women….not only don’t they contribute, they try to live off them, sex them, sometimes sexually abuse their little girls!
I don’t date men with kids! Too much drama, he’s broke, no time, too many issues…………No way, I stay away!
What your saying is …
What your saying is true! Just like AJ on Atlanta House Wife’s who had 6 kids by 4 different baby’s Mothers.
Hell no! ….No way! I dont even date BM their broke, dont want to pay for dates, dont know how to treat women and their cheap!
I don’t feel that …
I don’t feel that its selfish, I don’t blame you. At the same token, when I dated BM formerly I discriminated because they have kids you have to pay the bills while he spends all his money on his kids.
Since most Black men cheat, broke and have high risk lifestyles, I dont date Black men at all! Most Black women who are with Black men dont get anything for the investment of their time with them!
Hell No BLACK MAN BAILOUT PLAN 2010asons.
MOST men are …
MOST men are selfish, black, white whatever…it is the rare man that is not selfish…that’s why we even have to give em a prize to be self-less, ala Obama and the nobel peace prize heehee
i dont date men …
i dont date men with children
so i dont feel your selfish
Single brother here …
Single brother here, born and raised in Atlanta , Ga. 2nd generation Morehouse. CPA making a good living. Never married , no kids. And I wont date a woman with them. To me , a woman with kids is damaged goods. If you went to a restaurant you would’nt order a doggy bag? If she got kids , she just blew it , just like a felon out of jail looking for a job. The good jobs go to ones that are qualified , not the ones that want to be.
No it’s not …
No it’s not selfish.I am a single black woman no kids (don’t want any) & I won’t date a man with children. That’s a trip with too much baggage, pay those sisters who tell you you’re wrong no mind. It’s nothing more selfish in this world than bringing a life or multiple lives into this world that you can’t afford mentally, physically, or emotionally (this goes for men & women but ESPECIALLY WOMEN).
many women feel …
many women feel that a relationship is a RIGHT and thats their major f**k up because no man owes them anything. A relationship is not a given and we dont owe single mothers anything.
Wow. well said.
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Wow. well said.
I believe every single woman who is looking for a serious, healthy productive, respectful, long-lasting relationship, should listen to videos like these.
Macadon, naw …
Macadon, naw we ain’t selfish, 90% of these knocked up women wouldn’t pay us no mind if our wasn’t together. Most of them were looking for men on shallow minded basis, like what kind of money and car he drive, how big his package is, and how good he looks..so they reap what they sew.
Women will say …
Women will say anything to cover up their mistakes. Too many of them like the fast life when they are young but will blame others for the mistakes they themselves made from living that fast life.
I’m sorry but that dog ain’t huntin’ here!
esmooth100 thats a …
esmooth100 thats a major red flag. they will sit around and talk noise about the kat but somehow they still owe him this and that(in some cases a lot more than a ride to work). And forget any justifications because i have seen it first hand(everybody on the net is innocent when stuff like this gets discussed).
Dude I tried it …
Dude I tried it myself and I just can’t do it neither, for several of the reasons that you have stated. I was talking to one female and she always talked about “ohh I hate him I wish he would just die” (her baby’s father now) and then “ughh I had to give him a ride to work this morning but I didn’t want to”. WHAT?, I saw the red flags right there.
I’m not picking up …
I’m not picking up the tab that another man skipped out on, bottom line…
You aren’t selfish. …
You aren’t selfish. If you don’t want someone else’s kids then you don’t want someone else’s kids? What else is there for these people who hound you to argue about? Damn! Maybe you don’t want to go through the drama of someone else’s children, a bitter woman, and a psychotic deadbeat dad.
Thank you!!!
Thank you!!!
your mama is a …
your mama is a lame faggot.
dont worry about …
dont worry about these because there are men who will not mind kids.